THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
“We have
been sent into the world to implement the rule of God on earth. Where there is
discord we are to replace it with harmony. Where there is hatred we are to
replace it with agape. Where there is an offense simmering into a murderous
conflict, we are to replace it with forgiveness. When we choose to forgive, we
invade the realm of darkness and defeat those dark forces with the power of a
resurrected life.” - Dudley Hall
We must
develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to
forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us
and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to
hate our enemies. Martin
Luther King, Jr.
Darkness
cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate;
only love can do that. Martin Luther King, Jr.
We must develop and
maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to
forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst
of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are
less prone to hate our enemies.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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We must develop and
maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to
forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst
of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are
less prone to hate our enemies.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
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WHAT IS FORGIVENESS? Forgiveness is the act of
compassionately releasing the desire to punish someone or yourself for an
offense. It’s a state of grace, nothing you can force or pretend. There are no
short cuts. Mistakenly, some of my patients, wanting to be “spiritual,” have
prematurely tried to forgive after someone emotionally knifes them in the gut.
First, you must feel anger before you can begin to forgive.
Forgiveness
is one of the most powerful responses that we could ever have, yet the steps in
forgiving others may be difficult. Forgiving others is very hard. The love of
Christ is the only way we can set free those who have deeply wounded
us. The love of Christ gives us the only context we have for believing God
has forgiven us.
There is perhaps no greater gift you can offer God than a heart that knows the power of forgiveness and decides to set others free. Forgiving shows that the love, grace, and mercy of Jesus are operating in our lives. It is time to access this life-changing grace of forgiveness.
Is there someone who has offended you? Are you able to release the person in forgiveness? God gives us divine power to forgive. We who have received the freedom of forgiveness have the power to set one another free. This is a power that truly sets the captive free and can affect the whole world. Forgiveness defeats darkness on a massive scale because it involves the resurrection power of Jesus. Nothing can defeat the greatness and glory there is in one act of forgiveness.
“Would you like to see the Lord shatter the spiritual prisons in your life, the areas where you feel trapped? Then forgive those who put you there, for surely the walls of your imprisonment are made of your own anger and unforgiveness toward others.” Francis Frangipane
There is perhaps no greater gift you can offer God than a heart that knows the power of forgiveness and decides to set others free. Forgiving shows that the love, grace, and mercy of Jesus are operating in our lives. It is time to access this life-changing grace of forgiveness.
Is there someone who has offended you? Are you able to release the person in forgiveness? God gives us divine power to forgive. We who have received the freedom of forgiveness have the power to set one another free. This is a power that truly sets the captive free and can affect the whole world. Forgiveness defeats darkness on a massive scale because it involves the resurrection power of Jesus. Nothing can defeat the greatness and glory there is in one act of forgiveness.
“Would you like to see the Lord shatter the spiritual prisons in your life, the areas where you feel trapped? Then forgive those who put you there, for surely the walls of your imprisonment are made of your own anger and unforgiveness toward others.” Francis Frangipane
Steps in Forgiving Others
"Bear
with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one
another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you" (Colossians 3:13).
Here are some basic steps toward extending and receiving forgiveness:
Here are some basic steps toward extending and receiving forgiveness:
- RECOGNIZE AND CALL SIN WHAT
GOD CALLS IT - Be
specific and thorough. Remember that forgiveness is not excusing and
approving of inappropriate behaviour or saying that an offense isn’t
important. Be honest with yourself
and
recognize your emotional response. You may feel angry, sad, let down, or
disappointed. It isn’t wrong to have emotions. They are natural. It’s what
you do with your emotions that can be sinful. Make sure there is no
offensive way in you.
"Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting" (Psalm 139:23-24).
- SHARE WITH GOD HONESTLY AND
LET HIM HEAL YOU - Tell God what happened to you and how you
feel. Look at His evaluation of the situation. Focus on Him and His
faithfulness. Spend time with Him, and let Him restore where sin has
destroyed. Forgiveness releases God’s divine healing power.
“O lord my God, I called to you for help and you healed me” (Psalm 30:2).
- SET THE OFFENDER FREE,
UNDERSTANDING THAT IT IS A PROCESS - Declare forgiveness. Say, “I
forgive [name the individual
or
group] for [name the offense].”Don’t say, “I want
to forgive.” It takes time to go through
the process of forgiveness. The hurt can come up at different times,
and we must choose to forgive again. It doesn’t
mean we automatically forget the offense.
“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you” (Ephesians 4:32).
- RELEASE THE OFFENDER TO GOD -
Repent
of your desire to punish or take revenge. Let God deal with the offense.
Focus on today rather than the past. Let the offender off the hook.
Declare God as judge over the person and the situation.
“Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the lord” (Romans 12:19).
- BLESS THE OFFENDER - Apply God’s forgiveness.
Trust and reconcile when possible, but realize that forgiveness does not
always mean we have to relate to the person in the future. In some cases,
this is not possible. Know God’s protection and justice. We are God’s
called-out people, who know who we are in Christ and walk in love with God
and one another. We become partakers of His resurrected life. Forgiveness
is essential if we want to walk in personal and corporate revival.
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse” (Romans 12:14).
God will
give us the grace to fully set everyone free. May we be like Jesus, who was the first one
to love. When God forgives us, He gives us the power to forgive. May the river
of God’s life flow through us in that we bless everyone we meet. May we remind
people of how much they are loved by God. As we give our lives away in love and
forgiveness, we become free ourselves. Many of us don’t realize the power
there is in truly forgiving one another. It is much greater and has a far
greater consequence than any of us have ever realized.
"Forgiveness is the very spirit of heaven removing the hiding places
of demonic activity from the caverns of the human soul. It is every wrong
made right and every evil made void. The power released in forgiveness is
actually a mighty weapon in the war to save our cities." - Francis
Frangipane
Prayer:
Dear
Lord, I thank you for the power of forgiveness, and I choose to forgive
everyone who has hurt me. Help me set [name anyone who has offended you] free
and release them to You [Romans 12:19]. Help me bless those who have hurt me
[Romans 12:14]. Help me walk in righteousness, peace, and joy, demonstrating your
life here on earth. I choose to be kind and compassionate, forgiving others,
just as you forgave me [Ephesians 4:32]. In Jesus’ name, amen.
By William Augustine
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